Author: GraceUMClaremore

  • Even There I Wasn’t Alone

    Wednesday June 11, 2025

    Even There, I Wasn’t Alone

    Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”

    Reflection: There was a time in my life when I had burned every bridge. I was living in my car, delivering pizzas to survive, curled up each night in the back seat with pride in my heart and no one to call. I had pushed away my family. I refused to ask for help, not because they didn’t care, but because I had caused deep wounds and didn’t want to face the consequences of my own decisions.In that season of isolation, I thought I had lost everything, including my faith. But one night, in a jail cell, the result of living in the car, a long-buried seed broke through the surface. I found myself whispering the words I hadn’t said in years: “Our Father, who art in heaven…” It all came back. The prayer my father taught me as a child. The one I mumbled through in church out of habit became a lifeline in the dark.That prayer didn’t fix everything overnight. But it cracked open my heart. It reminded me of who I belonged to. It reminded me that God never left, even when I ran, even when I fell, even when I was angry at Him for taking my dad.Proverbs 22:6 isn’t a formula. It’s not a guarantee that our children will never wander. It’s a principle, that the seeds we plant truth, love, prayer, etc. etc. will take root, even in the most unexpected seasons. Even in a jail cell. Even in the back seat of a car. Even after decades of silence.Because God is the Ultimate Parent. When our parenting falls short, His grace fills the gap. When we feel powerless to fix what’s broken, He is still writing the story. He’s patient. He’s faithful. And He never stops calling His children home.

    Consider This:

    1. Is there someone in your life who has wandered. Don’t give up. Keep planting. Keep praying and trust the Ultimate Parent.
      1. Have you wandered yourself? Do you carry shame, thinking you’re too far gone to come back? You’re not. Even in your lowest moment, God is still with you. His grace is still for you.

    Prayer: Father, thank You for never leaving me, even when I ran, even when I was angry, even when I was alone. Thank You for the seeds of faith planted in my life and for the way You nurture them in Your perfect timing. Help me trust You with the process, both in my life and in the lives of those I love. Remind me today that You are the Ultimate Parent, faithful, patient, and full of grace. And even when I feel lost, I am never alone. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  • Gratitude Moves Us

    Gratitude Moves Us

    Wednesday May 28, 2025

    Scripture: Acts 2:1–21

     Reflection: Fifty days after Easter, the disciples were together, unsure, waiting, maybe even afraid. And then it happened, Wind. Fire. A sound from heaven. What Jesus promised came true. The Holy Spirit showed up and not with a whisper, but with power. It was loud, messy, and miraculous. Pentecost wasn’t a comfortable moment it was a holy interruption. The Spirit didn’t come to keep them in the room. The Spirit came to send them out. It was a gift. An undeserved, unearned, and absolutely overflowing with grace kind of gift. But friends Pentecost didn’t end in Acts 2 because the same Spirit who strengthened Peter, who gave birth to the Church, who filled that room like a rushing wind lives in us today. Today, don’t just think about gratitude, act on it. Write a note of thanks, offer help where it’s needed. Speak a word of encouragement. Give generously of your time or resources. Let your gratitude become movement because you are not alone. You are Spirit-filled and you are sent

    Consider This:

    Where is the Spirit inviting me to move?

    What gifts am I holding back that could be used for God’s glory?

    Where can I serve, love, or listen today with Spirit-filled boldness?

    Prayer:

    Gracious God thank You for the gift of the Holy Spirit. Thank You for rushing winds and quiet nudges, for the fire that refines and the love that sends. Lord, may my life reflect deep, daily gratitude not just in words, but in movement. Fill me again. Move me again. Let me be a witness to Your power and presence today and every day. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  • Be Who God Says You Are

    Gratitude for the Ascension

    Be Who God Says You Are

    Scripture: Ephesians 4:22–24 – “Put away your former way of life… and be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and clothe yourselves with the new self, created according to the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.”

    Reflection: Today is a chance to remember something we often overlook, The Ascension of Jesus. It wasn’t just the end of His earthly ministry—it was the beginning of His reign, His intercession for us, and the sending of His Spirit to empower us.The Ascension means Jesus didn’t just rescue us, He elevated us. He lifted us into a new identity, one that isn’t defined by our past, our failures, or our fears. It’s defined by who He says we are.And the best response to that kind of grace is gratitude.Gratitude isn’t just a feeling; it’s a way of living. It shapes our behavior, softens our emotions, frees our finances, changes our words, and refines our manners. It doesn’t make us perfect, but it does make us more like Jesus.Because Jesus ascended, we can live honestly, knowing we are secure in Him. We can deal with anger and pain, knowing He carries our burdens.We can give freely, trusting that Jesus reigns.We can speak with grace, echoing the kindness He speaks over us.We can treat people with compassion, because Jesus has never stopped caring for us.As Christianswe carry the name of Christ and we wear His grace. Friends, the world is watching, not for perfection, but for reflection. Let them see Jesus in you.

    Consider This:

    • Pick one area, your words, your generosity, your emotions, or your relationships and ask: How can I live in gratitude in this area today, as someone empowered by the Ascension of Christ?”
    • Write down one small action you’ll take today to reflect who God says you are

    Prayer: Jesus, thank You for not only dying for me but ascending to reign over me with grace and truth. Help me live today in gratitude—not just in my words, but in the way I treat others, handle stress, and give of myself. Make me more like You. Help me be who You say I am. Amen.

  • Because I Love You

    Wednesday may 21, 2025

    Because I Love You

     “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” – John 14:15 (NRSV)

    Reflection: Have you ever done something just because you had to and not because you wanted to?Now think about a time you did something out of love or gratitude. That feels different, doesn’t it?That’s the kind of obedience Jesus is talking about in this verse. He doesn’t say, If you want to be accepted or If you’re afraid of punishment. He just says, “If you love me.”It’s not a command shouted from a mountaintop it was a tender statement spoken in a goodbye conversation between Jesus and His closest friends. He knew the road ahead would be hard. And instead of giving them a checklist, He gave them a relationship, grounded in love, trust, and guided by the Holy Spirit.Friends obedience without love is just religion and obedience with love is relationship.God doesn’t want your performance He wants your heart. When you know you’re already loved, obedience becomes a response, not a requirement. God’s grace is free but it calls us to live fully. Not to earn His favor, but because we already have it. That’s the difference between dead religion and living faith. When you feel stuck or stagnant in your faith you are not disqualified. We all have seasons when we feel stagnant, spiritually dry, tired, or unmotivated. It’s not a sign of failure it’s an invitation. An invitation to reconnect. To rest. To realign. An invitation to ask the hard questions like:  Am I trying to do this on my own? Have I lost sight of the Source? Do I need the Spirit to stir my soul again? Friends Jesus said, “Remain in me, and I will remain in you.” (John 15:4) Branches don’t bear fruit by trying harder they bear fruit by staying connected to the vine.

    Consider This:

    1. Am I obeying from love or obligation?
    2. Have I made space for the Holy Spirit to help me, guide me, and empower me?
    3. What’s one small act of obedience I can take today—because I love Jesus?

    Prayer

    Holy Spirit, thank You for being my Helper, not my drill sergeant. Thank You for comforting and not condemning me. Forgive me when I’ve tried to push through on my own. Renew my  hunger for God. Stir my soul with a fresh desire to know Jesus, whether brand new or all over again. Lead me with Your wisdom and strengthen me with Your presence. Because I trust You, I thank You, and I love You.

    Amen.

  • Gratitude for Community

    Gratitude in Community

    Wednesday May, 14 2025

    Scripture: Acts 1:12–26
    Over the past few weeks, we’ve been exploring what it means to live lives shaped by gratitude. Today, we reflect on gratitude in community and how thankfulness strengthens the body of Christ, and how it binds us together, especially in times of uncertainty. Stephen Colbert, a man more known for his wit than his theology said “It’s a gift to exist, and with existence comes suffering… but if you are grateful for your life, then you have to be grateful for all of it.” He wasn’t saying suffering is good, he was just saying that even through pain, there is sacred ground and that gratitude can emerge through suffering. And it’s in that space of sorrow mixed with grace where we find community. It’s a disciplined kind of gratitude, kind that the disciples lived after Jesus ascended into heaven. They didn’t go back to their old lives. They came together. In their grief, in their confusion, in their waiting… they gathered. In Acts 1 we see a community making decisions in faith, unsure of what’s next but knowing that they were better together. It wasn’t a perfect community, but it was a grateful one. Friends, I am grateful for my community. For the love, support, and spiritual guidance I have received here. This church has been a place of healing and growth in my life. To be honest, ministry here hasn’t always been easy. There have been times of misunderstanding, even judgment.
    But even in that, I’ve learned to be grateful because God has used the hard things to humble me, to deepen my compassion, and to strengthen my calling to love all Community is not just Sunday mornings. It’s checking in, praying for one another, serving side-by-side, growing together throughout the week. When we join together constantly, we’re not just building a moment, we’re building a movement. We’re building a community of grace, love, and accountability. And a grateful heart draws us toward each other not away. After Jesus ascended, the disciples didn’t scatter they drew closer. Verse 14 says,  “They all joined together constantly in prayer, along with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with His brothers.” This is a radically inclusive moment for 33 AD. Men and women. Jesus’ family. Disciples who had once scattered, now joined in unity.

    Consider This:

    • Gratitude has a way of making space for others, even for people we don’t fully understand.
    • Gratitude invites curiosity instead of criticism.
    • In a divided world, gratitude builds bridges.

    Prayer:
    God of unity and grace, thank You for the gift of community.
    Help us to live lives of gratitude—not just alone, but together.
    Teach us to join together constantly in prayer, in love, and in purpose.
    May our thankfulness overflow in how we treat one another.
    Let our unity be our witness, and may Grace UMC be a light of love in this world.
    In Jesus’ name, Amen.

  • Gratitude in The Unexpected

    Scripture:  Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

    Reflection: Sunday we celebrate Mother’s Day, a day to give thanks for mothers, grandmothers, aunts, mentors, and every woman who nurtures, guides, and loves with the heart of God. Whether they are biological mothers or women who’ve nurtured others in different ways, we honor their faithfulness and love.But besides the people who’ve blessed us, today is also a moment to lift our eyes to God in gratitude. Over these past weeks, we’ve been learning how to grow a heart of gratitude. We’ve thanked God for His grace and the undeserved gift of salvation.We’ve rejoiced in the resurrection and the transformation it brings to our lives.  We’ve learned to give thanks even in hardship, trusting God’s presence and purpose.We’ve talked about the presence of Jesus with us, no matter what we face in life.Each week has reminded us that gratitude isn’t just a response to Gods blessings it’s a posture of the heart that draws us closer to God.

    Today, we continue this gratitude journey by reflecting on God’s faithfulness in the unexpected. Life rarely goes according to plan. Many of us carry dreams that haven’t come true, grief we didn’t plan on, or circumstances we never imagined. And yet, even in the twists and turns, God is present.As we get ready to celebrate Mother Day I found led to reflect on women of The Bible

    • Sarah waited decades for a child and laughed when she overheard the angel say she would have a baby Genesis 18:12
    • Hannah wept year after year at the temple until God answered her prayer in an unexpected way 1 Samuel 1:10-20Jochebed placed baby
    • Moses in a basket on the Nile, trusting God’s protection without knowing what would happen Exodus 2:1-10

    None of these women planned things to happen the way they did.  And yet, God was at work in every moment. Gratitude doesn’t always come from a place of everything going right. It comes from knowing God’s hand is steady even when ours is shaking.Proverbs 3:5-6 invites us to trust, even when we don’t understand

    Lord, I don’t understand this season, but I trust You’re leading me through it.

    Whether you’re a mother raising children, a grandmother praying over family, a woman waiting for motherhood, or a nurturer of others in unexpected ways, God sees you. God honors your faithfulness. God is with you in the unexpected.

    Sometimes the greatest blessings come in ways we never imagined. And sometimes, gratitude grows deepest in seasons of waiting, loss, or change. We learn to give thanks not only when prayers are answered, but when someone walks alongside us when we feel alone. Or when we get a word of encouragement at just the right time. We should be grateful when we get strength when we felt like quitting. Friends God provides in quiet, hidden ways we didn’t notice at first.

    Gratitude doesn’t erase the hard times, but it does help us see Him in the unexpected.

    Today, we celebrate mothers but we should also expand our understanding of mothering. It’s found in the teacher who pours into students, the friend who shows up when chaos happens. It’s in the neighbor who makes a lonely child feel seen and the spiritual mentor who prays over the next generation.

    No matter your role or title, God uses women to nurture, protect, teach, and lead in ways that reflect His heart. You may have dreamed of one path and been given another but your faithfulness matters. And there’s reason to be grateful for the love and influence you share.

    Prayer: Lord, today I thank You, for what I didn’t plan, for the detours I didn’t want, for the blessings I didn’t expect and for the strength I didn’t know I had.

    Thank You for mothers and spiritual mothers. Thank You for those who nurtured me in unexpected ways. Thank You for Your steady presence through every twist and turn. Help me lean not on my own understanding but trust You with all my heart. Amen.

  • Wednesday Word

    Gratitude for Grace

    Wed. April 23, 2025

    Scripture: Ephesians 2:4–5 “But because of His great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved.”

    Reflection Friends,take a moment to breathe deeply and slowly. Quiet your heart and think about this phrase, “When we were done, God made a new way.”

    We tend to think grace is something we receive when we’ve tried our best but fell short. But Paul reminds us that grace doesn’t wait at the edge of effort, grace shows up at the edge of death. We weren’t just struggling, we were spiritually dead when God stepped in. God didn’t demand perfection, God gave us resurrection.Grace doesn’t come when we have something to offer. Grace comes when we have nothing left.Rememberwhere you were when grace found you. Do you remember your, BUT GOD moment. What wounds are you hiding that God might want to use to bring healing to others?

    Peter denied Jesus at His most vulnerable hour. Yet Jesus didn’t cast Peter aside He restored him and re-commissioned him. Jesus used Peter’s brokenness as a foundation for future ministry.Can you name a time when God turned your failure into something He can use.

     Friends we can rest in the truth that “By grace you have been saved through faith—and this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God.” —Ephesians 2:8. You don’t have to earn grace. You just have to receive it. And when you do, the only response that makes sense is gratitude.

    Gratitude that leads to love. Gratitude that leads to service. Gratitude that leads to worship.

    Consider This: Each day this week, write down one moment of grace you’ve received and one act of gratitude you can offer in response. It could be forgiving someone, encouraging a friend, or simply saying thank you more than you usually do. Live like someone who’s been rescued, because you have.

    Prayer: Thank You, Jesus, for meeting me in my brokenness, for loving me when I was at my worst, and for calling me into new life. Remind me today that I am grace-made, not self-made. May my life be a reflection of Your mercy. Use my wounds for Your glory and my story for Your purpose. Amen.

  • Watch This

    I unveiled my skill for writing poems when I was in my own tomb. A season of my life filled with silence, heaviness, and spiritual stillness. Back then, poetry became my prayer, my therapy, my confession. I wrote from a place of deep wrestling, sometimes with God, sometimes with myself. I used to write poems in the shadows, not because I had the answers, but because I was desperate for resurrection. Writing wasn’t just a creative outlet it was survival. In those quiet hours, when hope felt buried, poems became a way to dig through the darkness, searching for light. Friends “Watch This” is more than a poem. It’s a testimony from my tomb and a reminder that even when the stone is rolled in place, and it feels like the end, Jesus is up to something. So if you’re in your own tomb era then hold on. The Author hasn’t finished writing. And when He does, you’ll hear Him say with a smile, Watch this.

    Watch This

    They hung Him high, then pierced His side,
    A crown of thorns, who He was, denied
    The crowd grew still, the sky turned black,
    It looked like death had won the track.

    The cross was meant to be the end,
    No more teacher, no more friend.
    With no more breath and battered frame,
    The grave received Him without shame.

    But Heaven whispered through the morning mist
    “Hold on a minute 

    You gotta watch this.

    The stone was rolled, the tomb undone,
    The silence shattered by the Son.
    Death lost its sting, sin lost its claim,
    And grace lit up the world again.

    This wasn’t just a tale retold,
    It’s hope reborn, it’s love made bold.
    It’s God who paints with mercy’s hue,
    And rewrites stories, like me and you.

    She came alone at noon’s high heat,
    Ashamed to walk the village street.
    The well was deep, her heart was dry,
    Another day to just get by.

    Five husbands gone, her shame well-known,
    She got her water all alone.
    But then a voice, a man, a Jew,
    Who spoke as if He really knew.

    He told her all she’d ever done,
    And offered grace beneath the sun.
    No scorn, no stone, just living stream,
    A holy pause, a grace-filled dream.

    And what if that same woman, brave,
    Returned one day and saw the grave
    What if the one who once felt loss
    Had come to weep beneath the cross

    And what if she, with trembling grace,
    Reached up and wiped her Savior’s face
    The One who knew her at the well
    Had journeyed far, to rescue hell.

    Now friend, I ask, what weighs you down
    What chains of shame, what thorny crown
    Where have you whispered, This must be
    The end of hope, the end of me

    But listen close, He’s not yet through.
    The stone that rolled was rolled for you.
    Where death had sealed the final page,
    He tore it open in His rage.

    For grace still walks through bolted doors,
    Still meets you on the dried-out shores.
    Still interrupts the script you’ve known,
    And calls your weary heart back home.

    So when your strength feels small and thin,
    And darkness whispers, You won’t win,
    Remember this, with holy bliss—
    Your Savior smiles and says:

    Watch this